When travelling to the Philippines, it pays to learn a bit of the local language despite the fact that most Filipinos can easily speak English. Visayan is one of the most spoken language in the Philippines being used both in Visayas and many parts of Mindanao.
Learning Visayan is not as easy, I have had several expat friends who already lived in Cebu for year but never got to speaking the language. Why you may ask? Unlike other Southeast Asian countries, most locals prefer to speak to foreign travelers in English as an effect of years being colonies of foreign countries. If you know a bit of Spanish then you already know a bit of Visayan because some of them have been mixed into the dialects along with some Malay and Chinese words. I am writing this post to share our dialect and spread awareness, here are some words and phrases that you can use:
good morning – maayong buntag
good noon – maayong udto
good afternoon – maayong hapon
good night – maayong gabii
goodbye – babye
thank you – salamat
thank you very much – Daghang Salamat
please – palihog
you’re welcome – walay sapayan
yes/no – o/di
yes/no (polite) – oo / dili
OK – sige
just a minute – kadali lang
only, merely, simply – lang
again, similarly – na pud
no problem – walay problema
how are you? – kamusta (na) ka?
how are you? (plural) – kamusta (na) kamo?
where have you been? – Asa ka gikan?
where are you going? – Asa ka paingon?
I’m coming from Mactan. – Gikan ko sa Mactan.
I’m going to Moalboal. – Adto ko sa Moalboal.
Good – Maayo
Good, thank you and you? – Maayo man, salamat, ug ikaw?
Also good – Maayo sab/pud
And – Ug
I – ako
You – ikaw
he, she – siya
they – sila
we (I and you) – kita
us ( I and others) – kami
you (plural) – kamo
this – kini
that – kana/kadto(farther)
who (singular) – kinsa
who (plural) – kinsa-kinsa
how – unsa’on
how many – pila kabuok
how much – tagpila
what – unsa
what did you say? – unsa to?
when – kanus-a
where – asa
why – ngano/ng
where is the port? – asa ang pier?
what is this/that? – unsa ni/na?
when is it ready? – kanus-a mahuman/matapos?
how far is it? – unsa kalayo (layo)?
who is this/that? – kinsa ni/na?
what is your name? – unsa may ngalan nimo/mo?
how old are you? – pila na may imong edad?
where do you come from? – asa ka gikan/ taga diing lugar ka?
which bus for the city? – unsang bus ang moadto sa siudad?
where is the bus stop? – asa ang hunungan/hulatanan ug bus?
where do I catch the jeepney? – asa ko musakay ug jeepney?
where does this bus go? – asa paingon/moadto kining bus?
where do i get off? – asa ko manaog?
how much is the fare? – pila ang plete?
what time is it? – unsang orasa na?
how much is this/that? – tagpila ni/na?
do you have air-con? – nabay air-con?
how much is a room? – pila ang usa ka kwarto?
Now you have learned a couple of basic Visayan words and phrases, do use them if you want to win over the hearts of the locals. Up next will be adjectives, numbers, commands and some conversational phrases!
Life is a matter of choice and each day we make a choice between worrying and living.
Each day, we battle with ourselves, with expectations and with the world. We worry our lives away, seeking for certainty and forgetting what is in the present. When we think too much we paralyze ourselves and stop living. We push ourselves to hard to meet up with what others want and start living by other’s definition. Routines make us robotic and lifeless. We end up burdened and depressed. Worry robs you of your life.
Do these three things: 1. Ask yourself: “What is the worst that can possibly happen?” 2. Prepare to accept it if you have to. 3. Then calmly try to improve on the worst.
Whenever you worry, remind yourself that if you do my best and stay true to yourself there will be nothing left to worry about. You need to realize that power comes from things that you can change. Whenever we let our fears win we become slaves to it.
Surround yourself with people who help you up.The company you keep influences your life. Choose your friends wisely.
Meditate and take time to think. It is not easy to free your mind from all these. It is a struggle at first but when you learn to let go and fully jump into life, things become easier and lighter. Each day goes by like summer breeze.
Focus on what you can change. Whenever we feel helpless, it becomes easier to just stay on beaten. When you start changing things you have control over, you realize that you are not a victim of circumstances.
Focus on what is going right, if you focus on what is wrong you will never see the most that is going right.. Negativity is poison and nothing good ever comes out from it.
Keep smiling and keep fighting. Changing simple physical gestures can make you feel better. None of us will ever live without going through struggles but it does not matter as long as you keep on standing up and striving for the best.
Do not sweat the small stuff. There are bigger things in life to focus about, do not let petty things steal your time.
Be good to yourself. Learn to forgive yourself of shortcomings and mistakes and grow from it.
When we have accepted the worst, we have nothing more to lose but everything to gain.
Do not chose the easy way. Sometimes it is tempting to let problems suck the life out of us, to let problems win over us but we were given will for a reason. I lost a lot of personal battles too and I for one am not immune from worrying. Roadblocks are there not to stop you but to test you on how much belief you have on yourself. When life knocks you out, you sometimes end up sleeping on the floor and you let losing fester in. There were times where I questioned my choices and regret doing things. Just remind yourself that you are born a champion.
Do not worry and fear kill you. Take risks. Break boundaries. Travel to unknown places. Defy norms. Redefine things. Do not accept everything as they are. Fall in love.
Life is for living. Dying is much certain and easier. Living is for the brave.